NORWOODGROEP FORUM

14 maart "Diseases of addiction, unlike other diseases, lay siege to every dimension of the person afflicted: the emotional and spiritual as well as the physical. With the relationship-addicted woman, it isn't just her love relationship that is affected. Her interactions with friends, family me...

Workshop voor ouders 23 maart - Amsterdam Als je ouders bent van een kind met problematisch gebruik van middelen en/of overmatig gamen, zul je waarschijnlijk veel vragen en onzekerheden hebben. Wij willen jou, met deze speciale workshop van één dag, extra ondersteuning bieden. Je krijgt op deze dag...

13 maart

"Information alone, no matter how alarming, is simply not enough to stop any kind of addiction."

Informatie alleen, hoe alarmerend ook, is simpelweg niet genoeg om wat voor verslaving dan ook te stoppen.

Dit is een heel interessante podcast, van Jorn Luka met Marina Riemslagh, over trauma en triggers en hoe je die oplost, een heel simpele methode. Met een heel interessant verhaal erbij hoe die triggers werken, in je brein.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9XYwEpr9zD4

Uitgetypte tekst hieronder.

12 maart "What is most hidden in us is also what is most universal. Everyone has secrets that need to be uncovered and healed, and as we face our own, we help create a climate in which others can do the same. As we work on our own healing, we help bring about healing in the world." Wat het...

11 maart "All each of us really knows about parenting is what we experienced as children with our own parents … and what some of us learned from them was more about what not to do than about how to parent well. We need to appreciate everything , positive and negative, we've received from our pa...

10 maart "It's never too late to heal ourselves and our relationships, even with people who are no longer alive. People's souls endure, just as ours do, and respond to our changes of heart." Het is nooit te laat om onszelf en onze relaties met anderen te helen, zelfs met mensen die niet me...

Nieuwe workshop! "Herstel" Wat betekent herstel voor jou als naaste? Herstellen als naaste: hoe doe je dat en waar ga je doorheen? Als naaste van een dierbare met een verslaving, in actief gebruik of in herstel, word je onvermijdelijk meegenomen in de chaos van de ziekte; veel overkomt je...

9 maart "Women who love too much often tell themselves the man with whom they are involved has never really been loved before, not by his parents, nor by his previous wives or girlfriends. We see him as damaged and readily take on the task of making up for all that was missing in his life long ...

8 maart "The best rule of thumb for dealing with people whose lives are unmanageable is to scrupulously avoid doing anything for them that they could do for themselves if they chose ." De beste vuistregel voor het omgaan met mensen waarvan het leven onbeheersbaar is geworden, is om echt he...

7 maart "We may be hard pressed to explain to family and friends how someone who is not particularly admirable or even very likable can nevertheless arouse in us a thrill of anticipation and an intensity of longing never matched by what we feel for someone kinder or more presentable. It is diff...

6 maart "When we feel responsible for another's behavior and we cannot bear our guilt and anguish, we need help in managing our own uncomfortable feelings , not help in managing that other person's life." Wanneer we ons verantwoordelijk voelen voor het gedrag van een ander en we de schuldg...

5 maart "Many of us have been taught that good sex means real love, and that, conversely, sex couldn't be really satisfying and fulfilling if the relationship as a whole were not right for us. Nothing could be farther from the truth for women who love too much. Because of the dynamics operating...

4 maart

"Never make threats you're not prepared to carry out. In fact, never make threats at all."

Uit nooit dreigementen die je niet werkelijk wilt uitvoeren. Nog beter is het om helemaal geen dreigementen te uiten.

3 maart "Sex is one of the tools we who love too much use for manipulating or changing our partners. We behave seductively to get our own way, and we feel great when it works and bad when it doesn't. Failing to get what we want usually causes us to try even harder. We often find it very excitin...